Forever.

Daily writing prompt
The most important invention in your lifetime is…

Been ruminating about this for much of the day. And I don’t even know if my response qualifies as an answer to the question. Well….

I really cannot pinpoint one in my lifetime. So lets go with this set: pen and paper. Oh, and enevlope. Nothing beats sharing your thoughts, support, gratitude, forgiveness and love as expressed on a hand written letter or note.

A note or letter to a team member. Customer. Parent. Friend. Stranger, Child. Sibling. Family. THE love of your life.

There is just something about a pen and paper that draws you fully in. It just comes out better than words. It captures a deep part of you that touches another in a lasting way. Opening them up so as to add your piece within them.

Conversations are built the same way. Expression, emotion, empathy, energy, embarrassment, entertainment that become a part of your life, through the spoken word. Moments that remain for the rest of your days.

And yet, when a moment apart, alone and affirming is captured on paper by pen, it is truly permanent. An altogether different manner of expression and connection. True conversations aren’t just heard, they are felt. The written word is absorbed and assimilated.

And because it can be physically given, that gift can be received over and over.

Unfolded, read, refolded, tucked into envelope, placed in it assigned space.

Again.

Again.

And again.

Forever.

Even from 1964.

Well, look at the start. Already ideal

A scant forty-five minutes after my first contribution went up, I was inundated by tears. Tears of gratitude.

Sitting in church waiting for mass. I get a text from my youngest with an image of a watch my mom left her. On the back were mom’s initials, and the date, 12-25-64.

Must have been gifted by dad to mom back on that Christmas. No clue. First time I ever saw the back of the watch. She wore it pretty much my whole life with her, and yet I don’t recall knowing what was inscribed on the back. Maybe it was a time in her life she wanted to keep to herself.

Now my little one has it and wants to get it fixed so she can wear it. Then she will have grandma and grandpa with her every day. I guess Christmas can come on February 5th if it wants to.

Just when you think it cannot get any better, it just does. Ideal might last for only the next forty-five some minutes until the next moment brings something even more amazing with it. You can never really know. But if you remain in it, the present provides all sorts of gifts.

Even from 1964.

So live it.

“You must live in the present, launch yourself on every wave, find your eternity in each moment. Fools stand on their island of opportunities and look toward another land. There is no other land; there is no other life but this.”
― Henry David Thoreau

How ’bout you?

Daily writing prompt
Describe your most ideal day from beginning to end.

As you may have gathered from my prior prompts and other versions of spontaneity, lists, qualifying, ranking and the like don’t really jive with my modus operandi. Maybe once before they may have ensconced themselves into a preeminence of some fashion.

But now, I cannot say for sure. With things still in process within, perspectives shift. What I want to experience and how I want to feel it are being guided differently. I let go of the wheel. And now, I just want to go with the flow.

For example, it is about 7:13 AM here in Mequon. I am parked at the east end of the kitchen table, watching one of those misting snow falls. A Wisonsin Februrary equivalent of a drizzle. As I rolled out the garbage cans, I can attest that it definitely sounded like that. And it almost smelled like it too. That one of a kind scent which accompanies the light rain of spring. Summer. Or fall. It is only gonna last an hour or so, as the experts claim.

No matter. I am gonna soak it all in. Maybe I will be lucky enough to see Barb and little Chloe Deere meander across the back yard. Cody Golden will alert me if I get distracted here.

So if things have already begun as such, anything more is purely a blessing.

Anything less? Well, look at the start. Already ideal.

And tomorrow?

Well, if I am granted that one too, sounds pretty ideal to me.

How ’bout you?

Acceptance is being.

“Finally I am coming to the conclusion that my highest ambition is to be what I already am. That I will never fulfill my obligation to surpass myself unless I first accept myself, and if I accept myself fully in the right way, I will already have surpassed myself.”
― Thomas Merton