To be “undefeated” means that despite your faults, your weaknesses and your circumstances, you will not allow yourself to become defeated.
Remaining “undefeated” is a mindset, an attitude you can choose to live by. It stands to reason, then, that becoming defeated is solely your choice. Allowing your perceived faults, a collection of bad decisions and the times you allowed yourself to falter when you should have been at your best to govern your life is essentially deciding to let all those moments define you.
Labeling yourself in this manner will only lead your thoughts, words and actions to mirror those self-defeating expectations and behaviors. And once so defined in this manner, you will find it increasingly more difficult to become what you were meant to be. Sort of like being lost, you will find yourself far from the person that was intended to remain ‘undefeated”.
So stop tearing yourself down and apart. Do not put yourself onto that path of self-destruction.. Affirm your true value, advocate for yourself through your performance and learn to see your abundant potential. Know that you are a powerful and positive force not just for you, but also in the lives of others. In time, with an open mind and heart, you will begin to see your faults and failures in a different light.
You can learn to choose to define yourself in the way that you respond to each “loss” – in thought, word or deed. You can develop a mindset that holds to the fact that despite my faults and weaknesses, “I can still be the captain of my destiny.”
I will not be defeated.
Whatever their source, accept defeats for what they are; opportunity.
Abundant chances to choose to respond in a fashion that can forever define you as “undefeated”
