Back in the day, I shared thoughts with kids in our community youth football program. Things stated and modeled at practice that were worthy of reiteration in written form. One of the formats I used was called “Ten Thoughts”.
After my post this morning, the top two from this set dating back to 2014 jumped out at me.
Time – THE most precious resource you will ever possess. And if you are not careful in how you use it – it can come to possess you. It is something only to be spent – and despite your efforts otherwise – it proves very difficult to bank. What you get – is what you get. There is no better time than “now”. So always “be” where you are. And make the absolute most of your treasured allotment.
Time part 2 – sometimes, “things” need to happen on their own time. This has nothing to do with the alignment of stars and planets, destiny or fate. Just how life goes. You might want, work and dream for something in the worst way. Your committed effort might make it happen. But then again – it might not. When it doesn’t, there is still something of value to be taken from the experience. Learning to persevere and have faith to name the top two. It all matters. It all means something. As Tom Petty once said “the waiting is the hardest part.” Yes it is. But one thing is for certain. Even in the waiting, you are being made ready for something even better.
After reading the top two, I would like to share this addition:
Time part 3 – being somewhere other than right here, right now can become suffocating. Attempting to change what has already been enacted or planning out a reaction to something that has yet to happen can suck the life right out of you.
The past is meant to be a learning experience, providing you with the wisdom to pursue a path towards greater affirmation. Or, if ego makes itself king, the lesson will be ignored and defeat will become repetitive.
The future is meant to be embraced as you have made yourself to hold it, but only if and when it happens. Not before. A lack of preparation and presence will leave you stranded from opportunity and fulfillment. You have to be there to “be” then.
Being present brings with it peace and serenity. Life.

And joy.
Perhaps this will someday become another addition.
Time part 4.