Ever outward.

“The first act of leadership is coming to grips with yourself, who you are, where you are, and what is of value to you, and shaping yourself by acts of conscious will into what you want to become.”

FENWICK W. ENGLISH 

To lead others, it is necessary that you are first able to lead yourself. A task that can get the best of most, if you are not quite sure “who” exactly it is that you are leading. 

Coming to grips with yourself – each facet that makes up the “who” you are – demands a high level of self awareness, unvarnished honesty and a measure of forgiveness. Once you have completed a thorough, yet loving,  self assessment then you are in a better position to begin the work that is needed to make a present reality meet the future vision. 

Each of us is a work in progress.   

For there is always capacity for growth, improvement and actualization. Besides, becoming what you were intended to be isn’t an overnight affair. Never.  It takes time, guts, perseverance and a measure of “want to” to will yourself into becoming the best version of that person you see in  the mirror. 

As time goes by, it won’t just be you seeing that reflection. Others will be drawn in  to take a  look too and see what the fuss is all about. 

Through seeing you, witnessing and experiencing your efforts, they will want to try to embrace a glimpse of what could be them should they choose to follow your lead. They will want to learn, understand and then share in that very process. So that they know from the source  how one can shape and will oneself into that best version of themselves. 

They will welcome and  benefit from seeing you fail and learning from your mistakes so that they may do the same.  They will relish and  appreciate the wisdom you provide on your journey  as they work towards their own goals on theirs. 

Leading yourself first in an open and honest fashion ultimately leads others to do the same.

Shaping all by acts of a conscious will into what you choose to  become. 

So they may as well. 

Forever spreading ever outward.

Seize it.

“carpe diem, quam minimum credula”…

….or ‘Pluck the day, trusting as little as possible in the future’.

Ever since Horace first penned this phrase, the passage of time seems to have weathered it. Worn it down. To make it more succinct and quote worthy.

Eventually, pruned down to roll off the tongue, becoming simply “Carpe Diem.”

A precise intention; a thoughtful command meant to spur one to “seize the day”.However, when you think about it, far too often, the day will seize us. 

That is,we permit it to do so.

We have all allowed this to happen at some point in our lives. An experience consisting of equal parts trial, tribulation and anguish, leaving one feeling twisted up and wrung out. Letting things – or days – happen to us leaves one disappointed, frustrated and full of anxiety for what will surely follow.

Once seized by a day, or a succession of them, one is led to a residence of “existence”. Not living. A place where just getting by and through it is all there is. Being seized by these days can only lead one to live in dread of what the next day will bring our way.

Yet even our overcast, rainy or stormy days have their value. They are part of a larger purpose and plan. They are meant to test our mettle.

Even in the darkest of days, there is still light to be found. It just happens to be obscured for the moment. With an eye guided by wisdom, some patience and the will to press on – even if it means taking the smallest of steps – one can still find something positive and lasting.

Progress can be made. Growth can occur.

So seize onto that one ray of light, if only by the fingertips. Hold on.

Wait it out.

Fronts do pass.

Commit to make it your mission, to discover something special in each day, to seize every moment within it; to go “all in” – with both feet. Even if it is baby steps. Just put one in front of the other and give it your absolute best.

It is in having this level of courage to move forward that will crack open the clouds and emit the rays of light on your efforts; both from within and without.

You will begin to see a way. You will be warmed and energized by the sense of accomplishment; rewarded for your perseverance by the act of simply pressing forward.

And as you continue, your momentum will become too great. It will overcome the inertia of the day. It will relent. And loosen its grip on you.

Like Robert Frost once said: “The best way out is always through.” Seizing the day – if by only grabbing a small corner of it – is as energizing as it is affirming. As your grip on it increases, new possibilities and opportunities will emerge. Like the adventure story waiting to be written, you will now want to see how it ends.

Butterflies of excitement and anticipation flock to overtake the nausea of fear and dread.

As you seize the day, and each one that follows, you will be making the future.

For it is what you make of this moment – the present – that determines what is yet to come.

“What you are becoming is what you will some day be”.

So “pluck the day, trusting as little as possible to the future”.

If you can understand the value that lies in act of the “plucking”, you have most likely already entrusted the future to those efforts you undertake in the present.

Think about it. There will be no ambiguity in what lies ahead.

No gray areas.

For you are choosing it now.

At this very moment.

But only if you “carpe diem”.

Squat, Bench and Dead

Just met with coaches at our new site to continue the process begun late fall.

The technique they developed was really something. And now they can safely and confidently perform the lifts then we can commence adding the weight.

Gonna be a great season with these athletes.

I am used to describing those I coach as “Student/athletes”. An old habit I guess.

So since these outstanding individuals are all students of making themselves a great life, how about “Life/athletes”?

Let’s go B’s and G.

Let’s go!!!!

A group of men posing for a photo

AI-generated content may be incorrect.

Rita

When my faith journey first commenced, our paths crossed.

Attending communion service at LC in Mequon, I got to know Rita. At first, it was about making sure she had a chair with arms so she could stand up and take the body of Christ.

Then, I would arrive in time to help her in and out of her car and into the service. Being a very independent woman she lived in and drove all around our town.

We always talked. She always listened. And we became close.

Moreso than I ever imagined.

Then a week or so ago, I get a letter from her son telling me she passed. And how she spoke of me. Tonight at the service, several people from the same communion service came up to me to say how she always spoke of me.

Talk about a “come to Jesus” moment.

They are desperately needed so as to realign oneself with what is genuine. Honest. True.

And of God.

Rita just loved, shared and gave. All the way to the end.

I am floored that those individuals approached me to share how much she cared for my well-being. After the fact.

Cannot say it was out of the blue.

It was out of Rita.

This changes things in a grand fashion.

Thank you for remaining with me past the end Rita.

I will forever then remain with you.

You just changed my life – again – for the better.

Thank you.

Hawks!

Congratulations to the Ozaukee Hawks basketball team for going 2-0 today and winning first place in the Region 8, Division 7 tournament today at Homestead High School in Mequon, WI!

Game 1: Spring City Bucks 19, OZ Hawks 29
The Hawks led by one point at halftime, then played a solid second half with balanced scoring from the players.

Game 2: West Bend Hoopers 24, OZ Hawks 42
The Hawks were down by two points at halftime, then played strong defense, rebounded well, and got a few fastbreak baskets in the second half to win the game!

The three coaches are very proud of the ways the players are working in practice, enjoying themselves playing as a team, and seeing success today on the basketball court!

You can see the confidence, connection and trust growing each time we are together. Those are the key elements that bind a team together. Whether we run the table or not, the fact that they have invested in each other in this fashion makes this a win all the way around.

Many teams NEVER figure that out.

We play next in the SOWI Sectional on Saturday, March 15th at New Berlin High School.

Cannot wait to see what happens next!!!

Coach Kurt, Coach Mark, and Coach Simon

One of the best Sunday’s ever!!!