Unknown's avatar

About Mark J. Hahn

“What we have to be is what we are.” ― Thomas Merton As I continue along life's journey, honestly coming to grips with what I am, enabled me to finally let go and simply be. There is no shame to be found in it whatsoever. And as time passes, my only regret is that I didn't sooner. But then again, this all came to be when it was supposed to. Not when I wanted it to. I just have to be what I am.

Making them famous in my eyes. 

If you could switch lives with a famous person for a week, who would it be and why?

View all responses

With all the intention, effort and faith I have applied in just trying to become me, I cannot be distracted by switching lives with someone “famous”.  

I can try to become more attuned or aligned with some aspect of their character.  What makes them get up and after it each day regardless.  

And to be honest, these individuals are most likely right around me, daily.  

Down the block.  Two pews down at church.  Passing me at the grocery store.  Taking a walk.  

Cutting the grass. 

Fame is fleeting.  Mostly shallow.  The quality of the moment. Seemingly subject to the will of the masses and the app you happen to be scrolling.  

I will continue to work on just being the best version of myself.  

With the help of those humble role models and teachers that surround me.  

I don’t want to switch.  

Because their influence is apparent, positive, lasting.  

And loving. 

Making them famous in my eyes. 

Preparation is reality.

How do you manage stress?

View all responses

From my perspective, I certainly create the majority of it. 

Totally self-induced on my part. An invitation to my personal pity party.

Like looking back to tell myself, “…it didn’t work last time, stupid”. Or going the other direction, knowing definitively what will happen and getting way out over my skis, “…this will never work, stupid.”

Procrastinating.  “ I have until….”

Zero self discipline. 

An abundance of ego. 

The affliction of pride. 

Way too little humility. 

No sense of presence.

Control is fantasy. 

Preparation is reality.