“The outer conditions of a person’s life will always be found to be harmoniously related to his inner state…Men do not attract that which they want, but that which they are.”
So I do find a great deal of validity in the words of Mr. Allen.
Though he speaks primarily from the first person perspective, there is an element of the Third person in all he says. He does seem to speak through Him to us even when he or we do not realize it. But I digress…
We are only able to attract what we want, through what we are.
If we fail from a character sense, make poor choices, lay blame on others, the world around us and pretend to be something we were never intended to be, we will attract similar beings, situations and reality. All because we choose to settle. Assume a convenient path. What makes things comfy. And all that enables us to avoid the truth. By being that which we are.
But then again, what about the impact of making good choices despite the push back from your past, others and the expectations of the herd? Or the effect of accepting responsibility, holding oneself accountable and ignoring the opinion of the masses? Choosing to accept what you know to be true about yourself regardless of conventional wisdom? And pursuing a path not less chosen but never attempted by you? Again, being what you are.
If you choose the latter, you WILL attract the forces of affirmation and what it is you wanty. You will become what you are, because you have fully acknowledged yourself, discerned how you can grow into that being and see where all of those difficult choices will ultimately take you.
We can only attract what we see in ourselves. To that I can attest.
So hear what the wise old mooses have to share.
Lean into what you know to be your truth regardless of the cost.
At first glance, opportunity may appear as a singular solid mass. Yet, its construction actually consists of multiple, interrelated layers. One overlapping the other, each oriented in such a way as to require a certain measure of patience, enduring persistence and a committed effort to seek what lay beneath the outer surface, each layer below and finally what resides at its core.
Now some may be content to just run with what is obvious and readily apparent from the outside. Finding enough satisfaction and a modicum of accomplishment in getting what they happen to get with minimal risk and exertion. Choosing a course of expediency over what is really being offered.
But those that are willing to fully invest in the moment, discern the truth of the situation and embrace opportunity in full stand to gain so much more. Not merely as a possession. But more so an avenue that can perpetually lead them directly to what they can become. A chance to divine one’s purpose, experience lasting personal achievement and pursue a path towards excellence.
On more than one occasion over the course of coaching football, we came to speak of “wearing a target”. How we would be pursued during a specific game, rivalry or over the course of a season as a whole. The inevitable by-product of developing a positive attitude, winning approach, culture of accountability, team and program. In some cases by making history and simply causing a lot of people to wonder just where we came from.
This too might occur in a professional setting. Corporate rivalries, competitors and the like that see you as the largest obstacle to their success in the market. Then one level lower, maybe there are those you work with or against in sales or customer service that place that target on the back of your polo.
Regardless of the situation, there are several ways you can choose to look at this circumstance or scenario. Most of which may backfire.
But in reality, there is but one way to see it for what it genuinely is; opportunity.
Not so much of the singular solid mass variety. But more so a construction consisting of multiple, interrelated layers.
Well suited for who you are and what you are built to become.
Unfortunately, the idea of wearing a target can be easily misconstrued as a hindrance. Unwanted pressure. Excess weight. One more thing to worry about. Thoughts, then words and eventually actions that dismisses, distorts and disparages the true opportunity that lay beneath each layer.
Wearing a target whatever your vocation is a badge of honor.
The medallion that signifies selfless effort, an absence of ego, unyielding commitment, resolute faith and a boundless passion for the mission. An insignia that tells all where you came from, what you made yourself into and where you can ultimately go.
From a football perspective, each and every scrimmage and game enjoined during a season could be viewed as a conference championship. Each opponent’s opportunity to take aim at the target. Take you down. Show the state they beat the champ. To be as good or better than you for one Friday night. A prime example of seeing opportunity as only a singular mass.
In the work world, each effort to expand your presence in the market may be viewed in similar fashion. The sales call intended to turn a customer your way or gain entry into a new market will be known. The manner in which you covet a customer to the extent that you make them the center of your efforts ripples back to the competition.
And yet, while they focus their thoughts, words and deeds to try to be as good as or better than your team, your company or you, you will still be working towards a much more significant and singular opportunity: becoming the best version of yourself and all you were intended to become at this particular moment.
From a football sense a layer or two beneath might be the chance to gain mass, increase strength and add speed, Peel back another may find you reaching that team GPA level, increasing community service times two and supporting every other athlete, artist, performer and scholar on their field of play as they do on yours.
From a professional sense, maybe you gain attention, develop a new relationship, explore how you might benefit one another and begin to work together. Multiple layers within that one instance. Multiply that by infinity as your thoughts, words and deeds spread through the market.
Embracing the appellation of “wearing the target” need not distract you from your goals and desires. It simply means that how you go has obviously inspired others to pursue being like you.
You should appreciate that sense of affirmation.
But at the same token, it is meant to seriously fuel your engines to take things even further.
...my temporary assignment. 